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The normal is, as such, always thoroughly contaminated, in every attempt to insist upon its normality, with the logic of the very abnormal against which it seeks to define itself. What's more, queer theory finds this same pattern at work in the attempts of the dominant to for its dominance versus the subordinate, the included to for its inclusion versus the excluded, and the familiar to for its familiarity versus the strange.

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Closetted some queer theorists have bluntly argued, there's nothing in many respect "queerer" than normative heterosexuality—or "straightness. Queer theory marshals this deconstructive practice to support its rejection of 'essentialist' understandings of gender and sexual identity, in particular the "minoritizing" notion of lesbian and gay closeetd where lesbians and gays are kamloops weekly escorts as if we are a class of persons discretely distinguishable from those who are straight on the basis of a fundamentally different—and entirely separate—kind of "natural" "orientation.

We perform gender and sexuality, queer theorists argue, according to normative fod which we for the most part unconsciously internalize in the course of our socialization and acculturation and from the vantage point of queer theory, socialization and acculturation do not end in childhood adolescence or with the achievement of adulthood but rather continue throughout the course of our lives.

It is the repeated performance of the roles these scripts define that produces the semblance of substantial gender lookibg sexual identities but, in fact, according to queer theory, we maintain no real essential, innate sexual or gender identity at all: it's all an illusion, if, admittedly, an often quite convenient and useful one.

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Since, queer theory contends, this performativity is a continuous process and one which is in fact highly unnatural i. It is immensely difficult, queer theory contends, to do so to 'naturalize' in this wayrequiring the investment of considerable resources, in order to try to conceal the closeyed that gender and sexual identities are always first and last performances, and, as such, both inescapably artificial and ultimately arbitrary arbitrary in the sense of historically and culturally conventional.

In sum, we perform gender and sexuality; we don't express what is innate or essential to our 'natures'.

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What, if anything, then, from a queer theoretical vantage point, distinguishes queer from straight ways of social being? How, in other words, does it make any sense, given what I've just shared with you about queer theoretical understandings, to recognize straight versus queer human subjects or human subjectivities once we deconstruct the notion of there existing a hard and fast distinction between the two between straight and queer? Queer theory does contend that maintaining this distinction remains in large part highly problematic, as doing so tends to sanction conformity to the prescriptions and proscriptions conjured by an illusory polarization that functions to repress the embracing of other than rigid, bipolar possibilities and to oppress those marked as abnormal versus the normal along this normalizing scale.

At the same time, however, queer theory accepts that distinguishing queer from straight remains a necessary consequence of the historically, and perhaps even naturally, finite limits of human imagination and forms of social organization. Insistence upon maintaining the practical semblance of a distinction between queer and straight also can serve as a kind of convenient fiction. It may, queer theory is often wont to suggest, even prevent, or at least forestall, totalitarian tendencies toward the absorption, containment, and north san diego escorts of emergent forms of resistant, disruptive, and subversive kinds of gender and sexual difference i.

In short, for queer theory, the force of 'the queer' relies upon the preservation of a kind of boundary-effect at the same time as 'the queer' troubles, and transgresses, the boundaries that the straight trusts tend to separate itself from the queer.

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What's more, queer theory conceives it to be possible sharply to distinguish queer versus straight modes of manifestation and engagement with the continuous instability, incoherence, flux, and play of gender and sexual "identity," such that 'the queer' represents the performance of an identity-effect by all those who cannot—or will not—conform to the dictates of the naturalizing illusion that gender and sexual identities are, could be, or should be straight-forward, fixed, stable, and coherent.

In short, 'queers' act out the fluidity, instability, and incoherence of gender and sexual identities. In sum, queer theory embraces the position similsr the "queer" as offering a powerful vantage point from which to critique common mis perceptions concerning the place or lack of place of gender and sexuality across the full range of social relations and institutions as ismilar as cultural discourses and practices within which we participate throughout the course of our everyday lives.

Queer theory cloested therefore conceives of "homosexual queerity" as well as, less often, the perhaps even more troubling, boundary-crossing and boundary-dispensing form of "bisexual queerity" to represent the historically most unsettling, disturbing, and threatening instance of "the other" at work nanaimo personals classified upon—the post modern social and cultural imaginary space of collective phantasy and imagination.

However, from the vantage point of queer theory, in the aftermath of the successes-and especially the failures—of gay and lesbian liberation in the approximately first three philadelphia female escorts after the watershed moment of the Stonewall riots, no longer does "the homosexual" or even "the bisexual" per se manifest a particularly powerful queerity.

On closted contrary, all those either unable or unwilling to conform to "heteronormative" standards for stable, consistent, and coherent forms of gender and sexual identity and difference today embody this potential lookibg transgressive resistance, disruption, and subversion. For queer theorists, "queer" is, therefore, not so much an adjective or a noun that refers to the broad array of contemporary lesbigay identities, but rather a verb that marks out a shifting field of gender and sexual discourses and practices that high class escorts east los angeles "to queer" both the straight and the lesbigay.

This queering, in other words, proceeds by taking up the position and the interest of those who occupy the sexual margins of "mainstream" lesbigay sub-cultures as well as the far fringes of dominant—straight—culture. In sum, it is not a question of 'being' similag but rather of 'doing' 'queer'.

As frequently as queer theory tends to privilege homosexual forms of queerity along with, to a lesser and yet far from negligible degree, bisexual forms of queeritymany queer theorists, in contrast, tend to find transgender modes of queerity yet even queerer. Transgender queerities evidence the extent to which one of the principal pillars within the binary logic of Western "phallogocentric" thinking where the socially symbolic 'phallus' acts as the de facto center, or virtual God, closeeted patriarchal relationsand its attendant forms of social organization i.

On the contrary, queer theory contends that the rochester escorts of gender binarism from a lengthy and continuing history of repeated violent imposition and restriction upon the potentially free play of gender, post-gender, and a-gender identities. In short, here, once again, queer theory contends that 'monogenderism' is restrictive and incoherent and inauthentic—versus transgenderism: it desperately pretends to a solidity and a normality that it cannot sustain, prove, or justify.

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Queer theory responds here not only by exposing the somilar of gender binarism upon violent suppression but also by challenging the adequacy of gender binaristic as well as heteronormative frames of intelligibility structures for understanding ever to do justice to the actual as well as potential range of human physiological-psychological and social-sexual modes of identity, difference, and relation. In conclusion, as you can tell, this is a highly complex form of critical theory.

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My doctoral dissertation was a Marxist critique of the place of queer theory within contemporary cultural studies. We will consider Marxist and other critiques of queer theory later in the semester, but, initially at least, we will try, as far as possible, to understand and work with queer theory on its own terms—and to take up and make use of what queer theory proposes represents its positive potential for progressive critical practice.

First, we can only engage with a small of ificant contributions to the similaf amount of work that has been generated in queer studies over the course of the past two decades. Second, the reading you will do for clkseted course should, at least from time to time, challenge you; you should find it at times difficult, at least initially so; and looikng should not expect that what you read will always make intuitive sense or provide immediate satisfaction.

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Do not rest content with the superficially apparent, the merely commonsensical, the seemingly self-evident, the already familiar; queer theory, like most critical theory, deliberately challenges all of this, and in order to appreciate what it means to think, speak, listen, read, write, act, and interact in a queerly critical theoretical manner, you will need to follow this path as well.

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